This Dreaded Dengue

Friday, August 27, 2010
I never thought I would get sick during my honeymoon.

No sane person would like to be sick on this momentous occasion (Momentous talaga!? Hahaha!), but the universe thought that maybe things would get a little more exciting if I fell sick, so fall sick I did. Hay!


When we got back from Tagaytay that Sunday, I felt fine. We even bought pineapples and mangoes on one of those roadside fruit stalls where I was magnificently ripped off by the manong tindero. (180 pesos sa kanya tapos sa kabilang stall 130 pesos lang! I felt soooo bad, I swear.)


We had a big lunch at home to officially welcome Eric in the family. Daddy cooked some really delicious gising-gising and home-style fried chicken with gravy. We then watched a few episodes of my new favorite show on NatGeo, "The Dog Whisperer", and then went to Sunday evening mass with the hubby, after which we had frappuccinos at Starbucks. I was my usual loud and crazy and gorgeous self. Cough, cough.


I woke up in the middle of the night with chills and I had to go downstairs to ask my mom for a blanket. I felt my forehead and discovered I was a bit warm, but I knew when I woke up the fever would be gone, so I just went back to sleep.


That morning, the fever was gone but I had this really nasty headache and my body felt sluggish. We had to go to the hubby's house that day because it's closer to the airport and we had an early flight the following day. By the time we got there, I was just so exhausted I just rolled into bed and slept.


Ta-dan! When I woke up from my nap, I was burning up big time. My sweet husband made sure I took my meds on time and ate food even if I threw up most of it. He ran back and forth to the pharmacy to buy meds, gave me sponge baths round the clock, and stayed up all night checking my temperature. I grew exhausted just watching him bustling about, but thank heavens I had him beside me that day. What would I do without you? Sniff, sniff. Love you, sweetie!


We thought I would have to miss my flight, but thankfully the fever was gone and I felt well the following morning. Well enough to head to the airport, check in and endure the 3-hour flight to Singapore in the freezer-like confines of the plane. The freezer-like temperatures extended even to Terminal 1 of Changi Airport, oh my goodness, and all I had was this tiny little jacket.


Surprisingly I felt hungry, so I grabbed a sub and a smoothie at Quizno's and just managed to eat half of it for fear of throwing up everything after a few minutes.

And then I thought about where I could find this kopitiam that the hubby and I decided we should meet up upon arrival. (He was on a later flight, so I had to wait around for 3-4 hours at the airport).


I couldn't find this kopitiam anywhere. I asked the airport guards but they seemed as clueless as me. I had this nagging feeling that the kopitiam did not exist anymore as Terminal 1 was undergoing renovations. But I had to make sure because I had no cellphone with me and there was no way I could contact the hubby. I felt tired and sleepy but I did another round of the airport. When I still could not find it, I decided to just go to the Budget Terminal and wait for his flight to arrive.


On the Skytrain and the shuttle bus ride, I felt feverish already, and I remember thinking "Oh no, when Babykoy finds out I have fever again, I'd be in so much trouble!" But when Babykoy arrived, he did not admonish me but just grew concerned, and right away we took the quickest way home.


I don't like being sick. I've never had a fever that lasted longer than 3 or 4 hours. But I was sick for two days already, which was odd, but we thought I just had a relapse from all the walking I did at the airport. Babykoy was texting non-stop with Edward, who happened to be a nurse, on what meds to give me. It was so very stressful.


The following day the fever was gone, thank goodness. I still felt lightheaded and nauseous, but we decided to go out on a movie date. Would be a shame to spend the sunny day inside the house. We had lunch at Burger King because I was craving for onion rings, and then we went to Plaza Singapura to watch a movie (The Last Airbender on 3D, this one really sucked!).

Right after the film, instead of having dinner out, I asked Babykoy if we could just go home because I was not feeling well again.


We spent the next two days holed up at home, me resting, the hubby at my beck and call. I knew I wasn't the most lovable person during this time. Always asleep, always with no appetite, always cranky, always quiet. But my hubby was so patient and sweet and gentle and reassuring the whole time. He's just the best.


We went to see Salt that Saturday, which was a lot better than The Last Airbender. Hehe. After the movie, we decided to go see a doctor already because the feeling of nausea was still there and rashes started to appear on both my arms and legs.


The first doctor we went to, after the routine interview and seeing the rashes, immediately recommended that we go to the hospital Accident and Emergency for a blood test.


"Because it most certainly looks like dengue," he had said.


Whaaaat? I can't have dengue! I can't have dengue here in Singapore! On my honeymoon!


We went straight to National University Hospital for the blood test. I was ushered in by the nurses (Pinays) to the fever facility while Babykoy waited outside.

I think I stayed for 4 to 5 hours there. The doctor, who was Singaporean, was very nice. I don't like syringes but she was very gentle and it only stung a tiny tiny bit. Then she got me on IV drip (3 bags!) because according to her I was dehydrated. The nurse gave me crackers and a hot chocolate drink that tasted like water. The doctor told me to eat up and drink all the time, and also to not shave my legs in case I cut myself.



The blood results came back and I got the clear for malaria, but I had a pretty low platelet count (79), so they asked us to come back the following day for another blood test. Which we did, and my platelet count rose up to 97.

Okay blood pressure, good vitals, no tummy aches, no bleeding anywhere, no fever. I asked what caused the rashes. They said it's from the dengue fever. Okay. I really had dengue. Up until that point I was in a state of denial.

They told us to come back on Tuesday for one last blood test before I left for Manila the following day. Just to be on the safe side.


The nauseous and vomiting feeling grew less and less and I felt better as each day passed. I was also getting my appetite back. My parents back home were sick with worry, but I told them I was not on that critical stage of dengue fever, and I was gonna be fine. My mom could not get over the fact that I did not tell her I was bitten by a mosquito. (Hello! I wasn't even sure myself!)

The last blood work told us that my platelet count was back to normal already and I could go home. They just told me to rest up for a whole week or so and see a doctor if there were any other untoward symptoms.


I really feel bad that I spent the week there sick instead of making the most of our days together as brand new husband and wife. I hate the fact that I had to put Babykoy through all that worry and physical exhaustion. And getting sick there was not exactly cheap, either! Good thing we had extra cash. So sorry baby, I promise I will make bawi major major! Thank you for taking care of me! Mwah!


I feel much better now. Still on medical leave though, but will be back to work tomorrow. Not very excited to be working again, haha. But the doctor has already given me a fit to work certificate, so I really have no choice.


I have a newfound phobia of mosquitoes now. I'm not sure where I got bitten by that evil mosquito. It doesn't matter. I guess I just happened to be at the wrong place at the wrong time. Just always be careful. Don't get sick! Dengue's a bitch!


A Mini Honeymoon

Right after the wedding, the hubby and I was immediately driven off to Tagaytay for some quiet time (read: sexy times wehehe!). Of course we wanted to get some time for ourselves before flying off to Singapore the following week!


We were there in less than an hour and as soon as we saw the room and the huge bed with the plushy pillows and the thick mattress, all we wanted to do was jump in, bury under the covers and sleep. Weddings could be exhausting, and we were definitely exhausted! To think ours was only a civil ceremony with thirty five guests!


Anyway, we decided to have all the spa and massage treatments for the following day. We just wanted to laze around the bed, rest a little bit in front of the TV and eat at the restaurant for dinner. And that's exactly what we did! The life of a VIP intent on gaining 10 pounds in just 3 days!


We stayed at Nurture Spa, by the way. Lovely quiet place tucked away in this quiet village in the heart of Tagaytay where you have to take this really long and winding road you could only wish to travel on during daylight. It looks absolutely spooky at night but you won't get lost, there are lots of directional signs along the way to reassure you that you're still on the right track.


Anyway, I didn't pack very smartly for that weekend. We were just so busy with the wedding arrangements. I only threw stuff haphazardly in my overnight bag. Even forgot to bring my phone charger and a pair of decent jeans! We didn't realize that it would still be cold at night in Tagaytay considering how hot it is here in Santa Rosa everyday. All I packed were super short shorts and really small tank tops. It mostly rained or drizzled on the evenings, too. Good luck!


What we loved about this place is the food! We stayed for 3 days and 2 nights. I think all we did was eat! Super yummy! We loved everything they served us. Even if we're still full from the last meal, we could not stop ourselves from heading over to the restaurant for the next meal of the day. There was just nothing else to do. Wehehe. (Loved the warm dinner rolls, pumpkin soup and the creme brulee! Oh and the steaks!)


We also enjoyed the facial and the foot spa. They put on honey and tea tree and other heavenly-smelling oils and lotions all over our faces and legs. After each treatment they served us with warm delicious tea that the hubby relished with gusto. He's a big tea drinker and he especially loved the tarragon tea.


Relaxed souls.

We had the full body massage on Sunday morning, right before check-out time. Did I enjoy it? Well, it was okay but I've never been a fan of hard massage. I didn't think it was a hard massage, but to me it felt like it because I often found myself cringing on the massage bed. And I really bruise easily, and I ended up feeling sore all over after that. Ouch.

We loved our stay at Nurture Spa. It's the perfect weekend getaway! Staff are gracious, attentive and very friendly. But make sure that when you do decide to visit, you're armed with Off Lotion, as there are, uh, a lot of giant mosquitoes and bugs flying about.

Will tell you what happened next on my next post. Pictures to follow. Hubby too lazy to do any uploading!









Happy Ever After

Thursday, August 26, 2010
Hellooooo! It's me! I'm back!

Where do I even begin telling my story? A lot has happened in the last few weeks my mind's still reeling! I really don't know where to start! And I can't stop typing without the exclamation points! That's how happy I am to be blogging again!

Well, okay, I really should just start with the best piece of news. Guess who just got married?


Yep, that's me! With my gorgeous hubby on our wedding day cutting our fabulous-looking wedding cake (made by our good friend Leen). Nothing lavish, just a simple civil ceremony witnessed by our families and a few of our closest friends. Still it was a full house, with all our invited guests showing up (even Avee!) and everybody having such a great time eating and going back to the buffet table for seconds and thirds, and just being papparazzis for a day.


Everything went smoothly save for the mysterious red dot that suddenly appeared on that space right between my eyebrows on the morning of the wedding. And the reverend who was an hour late which made us decide to let the guests eat first and then have the ceremony after. And the van that broke down.


But other than that, it was a wonderful day. No rain, no traffic. Got the chance to see my best girlfriends again. Got to meet my hubby's relatives. The room was filled with love and tons of laughter from the two families who met for the very first time and our friends who went all the way to Laguna to celebrate with us.


With my best girl friends


And the family


It's the best feeling on earth, knowing that I'm going to spend the rest of my life with the man I have been waiting for all my life. We are two of the luckiest people on this planet. Here's to our happy ever after!